Does this man have the potential of being your Mr Right? We are about to spoil you with no less than 14 different aspects of this mans personality, most of it related to how he dates or will be in a relationship, and then a few more bits to give you the full context.
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Fiery Reds are the most testosterone-fuelled type of all personas. Reds are highly competitive, quite domineering, opinionated, and strive for perfection, which makes them high achievers, and more often than not, takes them to the top of the pack.
Overview of a Red personality
You will quite easily recognize the Red for their confrontational manner of communication, strong views and opinions on everything and anything, as well as lack of praise or compliments. They can quite easily lose their temper, but at the same time, their charm, wittiness and confidence is very attractive.
On a date, they are likely be quite attentive, polite, and the date is very likely be planned well in advance. Reds are likely to be a very caring partners, but tend to demonstrate this in a practical manner.
Reds are not afraid to buy expensive gifts and will do so if the relationship is inclined that way. But don’t confuse these gestures with romance. They are more likely to be of a pragmatic nature.
Reds tend to take a while to let go, relax and unwind. And even then, it is more than likely that they are really still contemplating their next exploit in their head, so don’t take it personally if you find yourself in their company just to realize that while they might be with you physically, their mind is elsewhere.
Reds might be very outspoken and outgoing, but they are not the type to wear their heart on their sleeve, so don’t expect them to be able to share their emotions easily. Because of their tendency to be emotionally ‘constipated’, they don’t react well to someone else’s generous display of emotions. In other words, don’t be revealing any emotionally sensitive details of your life or proclaim your love for them too early.
Reds will always appear immaculately dressed, whether the occasion is work or casual, or even in sport apparel. They may be lean in their build as they burn so much energy with their fast-pace lifestyle.
Needless to say, with all their drive and ambition, these confident and outspoken guys, more often than not, excel in pretty much every area of their life and are perceived as quite a catch.
What Reds appreciates in a partner
They respect women who can stand up to them but also can put up with their pushy nature. Reds are unlikely to be attracted to soft, gentle yes-sayers, and will be looking for a woman who can keep them amused and on their toes.
In general, Reds are more likely to be drawn to someone who is similar to them in energy levels and overall outlook on life, so qualities like ambition, drive, strong values and principles, passion for something, desire to do achieve your goals, will provoke a great deal of interest from a Red.
A Reds approach to romance
Reds are not prone to displays of public affection and can come across as distant and cold when faced with display of emotions in public, but they will have no problem showering you with affection and attention in private. On a more sour note, they will happily do that only when it suits them.
How Reds make decisions
You will hardly be the one who gets to determine if any dating will take place when it comes to Reds, as they will have assessed you already! On the other hand, if you are being pursued by a Red persona, they will not easily take no for an answer. Early on in a relationship quest, they can be quick to terminate things if the relationship is not working, and just move on from it. In later years, if they are in a dysfunctional relationship, they may just maintain the status quo and keep up pretences rather than go through the rigours or expense of a divorce. However, rest assured that they would fight for keeping a long-term relationship that they believe is alive.
How Reds are with time
How Reds relate to money
Irritating habits of Reds
A Red persona can be direct and forthright to the point of being rude or abrupt. They may overlook any signs of emotion or clues that someone has been offended. As the most emotionally sterile personas on the chart, they pride themselves on being exceptionally pragmatic decision-makers, and believe it, they are!
To be like this, they have some unnerving habits: they may keep you waiting without explaining why, they can be sceptical and dismissive, and they may resort to a bit of verbal bullying. They are also exceptionally good at debating and may inadvertently engage you and draw you into this ‘sport’ of theirs to display their superiority. Or they may do this in a group to your embarrassment.
The answer to all of this is to get your ducks in a row if you want to benefit from a Red’s amazing decision-making abilities. All told, they can seem to not display any emotions and they may even have to be reminded that the showing of affection is normal in a relationship, especially in public. At the beginning of dating, this may not be that apparent because they can conceal this tendency with their exceptional charm.
What Reds find irritating
Also, because the Reds are quite hesitant with a display of emotions, you might unsettle them and quite simply get on their nerves with showing too much affection (especially in public) or having a need to talk about your feelings.
How Reds deal with emotions
On the plus side, while they might not be eager to show their love and affection too soon, they also won’t shower you with side effects of their stress or bad mood. Reds are very resistant to stress and deal with pressure very well. They do sometimes totally lose their rag in an outright rage. They constantly fear that this may happen, hence their stealthy grip on their emotions and why they keep themselves contained at all costs.
How Reds deal with confrontation
Note that they don’t necessarily aim to be mean, they simply believe that they are right, and quite often they are. Best to clearly state what you think the problem is and ask them for the solution. Most often, their solutions will be fair and right. You may not like it but going with their way will most likely not harm you.
An interesting fact about Reds
How Reds talk
Win or lose, there is always something to be gained out of a verbal skirmish for a Red, even if it is just to hone their debate skills.
How Reds are with friends
Red personas mix with people who share a practical purpose with them, who like stimulating conversation and have the same passion and drive as they have. They mix with people in sporting contexts too.
If Reds were lucky to build friendships that stem back from years ago, they are likely to be very loyal to them and will value those relationships highly.
Typical careers for Reds
Note: This is not to label anyone and neither is it an exhaustive list. It is presented to give you a flavour of how Reds can apply themselves. This also does not mean a person from another persona can’t be in the careers mentioned.
Generally speaking Reds are of the most testosterone-fuelled of all personas and will have a high sex drive. As with all things that they do, they like to know that they are good in the bedroom, too. As relationships age, their demanding careers can dampen this drive, so be aware that you’d need to keep this flame alive!